Family memoir · Private biographer

Your parents' life, written as a family memoir — in their own voice.

A private biographer listens, researches, and writes; then we design and print the book for every branch of the family. They tell the stories. We do everything else.

An open book beside a lit candle, scattered with dried rose petals

What a family memoir is

One life, told in its own voice, and written down properly.

A family memoir is the story of one life — the childhood house, the work, the war, the crossing, the marriage, the reasons behind every choice the family now takes for granted. Some call the person who writes it a memoir ghostwriter. We prefer private biographer, because most of the work is listening.

Over a series of recorded conversations we draw the story out at the narrator's pace. Between sessions we research the world around it: the town, the records, the history that explains why things happened as they did. Then we write, in the narrator's own words wherever we can, and the family reads and corrects every chapter before anything is printed.

Our particular strength is the part of the story that began somewhere else. When a life starts in Hungary or Central Europe, we read the parish registers, emigration papers, and local histories in their original languages, so the early chapters rest on facts rather than half-remembered names.

The commission

Everything between the first question and the printed book

One commission covers the listening, the research, the writing, and the book itself. You never have to coordinate a writer, a researcher, and a printer.

Listening

The conversations

Recorded interviews in person or by video, paced for the narrator. The recordings and transcripts stay with the family.

At the narrator's pace
Research

The history around it

The archival work behind the memories — records, maps, and the history that shaped each turning point, in the old country and the new.

Wherever the records are
Memory Book

The book

A hardcover memoir with the family's photographs and documents, designed and printed in as many copies as the family needs.

6–9 months · from one interview
How it unfolds

Five steps, at a pace that suits the narrator

A first conversation
We talk with you — and, when they're ready, with the narrator — about the life, the family, and what the book should hold.
The interviews
A series of recorded sessions, in person or by video, never longer than the narrator is comfortable with.
The research
Records, places, and context: the history around the memories, checked and filled in.
Writing and review
Chapter by chapter, in the narrator's voice. The family reads every draft, and nothing is printed until you are happy with it.
The finished book
Designed, printed, and bound, with copies for every branch of the family.
Questions

What families ask before they begin

How much does a family memoir cost?

Commissions begin at $10,000. The final figure depends on the number of conversations, the depth of the research, and the number of printed copies, and we agree it in writing before any work begins.

How long does it take?

Usually six to nine months from the first interview to the printed books. If time is short, tell us: we can record first and write afterward.

Where do the interviews take place?

Wherever the narrator is most comfortable — at home in person, or by video call. We work with families in the United States, the United Kingdom, and across Europe.

What if my parent's memory is fading?

Then it is worth starting soon. Shorter sessions, old photographs, and the help of other family members often bring back more than anyone expects, and research can fill in what memory cannot.

Who owns the recordings and the book?

Your family does. We never publish, share, or reuse a family's story.

Which language is the book written in?

English or Hungarian — whichever your family will read.

Begin

Start while the story can still be told firsthand

A first conversation commits you to nothing. Tell us whose story it is, and we'll tell you how we would approach it.

Reserve a first conversation